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Are
you visiting this site to help a friend who may be in a
crisis pregnancy? If so, they are very fortunate to have
someone like you in their life that cares enough to help
with information and support.
Your friend is probably very scared about a possible pregnancy.
It could be that she's experiencing panic and insisting
that abortion is her only choice. The first thing you should
do is to encourage her to confirm the pregnancy at our center.
She doesn't need to make any decisions until she is sure
that she is pregnant. Please consider coming with her for
the visit. Our tests are free and we won't tell anyone of
your visit to our center. Many of our consultants have been
through a crisis pregnancy and and are there to help you
explore your options. Our assistance is caring and compassionate.
When our clients have a positive pregnancy test we take
the time to provide them with detailed information about
all her options - single parenting, marriage, adoption or
abortion - and our extensive support services. Many women
initially feel like they have no other choice but to abort
their babies. With our physical and emotional support services
many realize that they have the ability to single parent,
get married or place their baby for adoption.
If your friend is pregnant please understand that her decision
could affect you. If she wants an abortion encourage her
to take the time to investigate all her options. There is
no reason to rush or panic. Understand that many friends
who accompanied women to abortion facilities discovered
that they felt "responsible" and were even traumatized
by the experience afterwards. Abortion isn't a safe and
easy option for anyone involved. Many women who have had
abortions share that they held deep anger against individuals
who assisted with their abortions because "they didn't
stop them" from making a choice that they would later
regret. This could be a moment in time that you remember
for the rest of your life. Be sure to allow those memories
to be "comfortable" by providing her with the
best support available through our center.
Help her to learn more about what a pre-born child looks
like:
Regardless of your feelings about abortion, it's best to
offer your friend everything that can help her make an informed
decision. If she determines to abort, you won't be any less
of a friend if you don't accompany her to the facility.
Encourage her to visit our center and learn about all her
options. In doing so you will be able to look back at this
time and understand that you truly helped her in a time
of need!
If you are the father of the baby, visit our "For
Men" page for more specific information.
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